My son wants to join the tennis team this spring, so
to get back in shape, he's signed on for a series of weekly two-hour evening lessons.
And I cannot wait, because at the huge tennis bubble, there is lousy cell reception, and from
what I can deduce, no wifi.
I found out for myself, the minute he went through
from the viewing area to the courts and I pulled out my phone to let my husband
know where we were. I soon noticed: no one on phones--not bored parents,
not teenagers awaiting rides or their turn on the courts, not younger kids
hanging about while siblings swung rackets, not employees. Even the
television was on a low volume.
Bliss.
That was last week, and I was grateful to pass the
time mostly talking with another mom, something that doesn't happen so often
beyond the middle school years. I wandered around the building a bit, but
there's nothing much to explore -- a small tennis shop, a gym
surprisingly empty and quiet, a closed hair salon.
This week, I have something else in mind: I'm going
to read. Maybe for two hours. And no one will email, ding, ring, tweet, or
message me. Well, they might, but I won't know; not unless I make the long walk
back to the dark, cold parking lot – and I'm not that much in love with technology.
I might write some too, given as I always have a
notebook in my purse, but I've been craving a long reading stretch, somewhere away from the
background buzz of undone household chores, unedited client pages, to-be-commented-on
student papers—and the cooking and laundry (always the cooking and laundry!). I remember having these almost enforced
unfilled time blocks more frequently when my sons were younger and there was
more time spent on sports fields and car pool lines, in church basements, indoor
soccer bubbles, and waiting areas. Now, they are hard to come by naturally, harder still to schedule.
I'm not sure yet what I'll bring besides a few unread sections of the print Sunday
New York Times, though the choices are plentiful. On my desk are a poetry collection and an ARC of a memoir, both
to be read in advance of interviewing the authors (sounds like work but mostly pure pleasure), an anthology of short essays I've been dipping into, a novella I've been meaning to reread, and fat new novel, beckoning.
The best part is that the lessons will go on for
weeks and start just early enough in the evening that my husband won't be home yet, so I'll be chauffeuring. Now, let's hope no one at the tennis center decides it will be a good idea to rectify
the signal "problem".
Photo by HoriaVarlan/Flckr Creative Commons
Photo by HoriaVarlan/Flckr Creative Commons
1 comment:
Don't make friends! Look cranky!
What a gift, which you, of all people deserve.
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